remembering our

donor heroes

Robert Allen Storie

Organ Donor


November 21, 2020

Robert was a 36-year-old who had a smile that could light up any room he walked into. He loved life, worked hard and had a zest for love, life, God and his circle of family and friends.

My son Robert was a 36-year-old, thin, very active young man. Over the course of his life, he had battled some addictions with drugs and alcohol and would do well for some periods of time and then would have some slip-backs and succumb to his addictions again. He was very active as he was a carpenter by trade and worked long hours weekly.

In November 2020 the day after Thanksgiving he got up with a headache and was later found unresponsive. Tragically, he suffered a massive stroke. Robert had made the decision to be an organ donor and had made that public knowledge on his birthday in August prior to his stroke. The wheels of emotion and grief began to turn and churn in our lives and bodies. Although, we hated to part with such a loving son and kind soul, we knew Roberts wishes and with his work ethic, activity level, love for life, and personality we knew what had to happen and we must let him go and carry on with his desire for organ donation. I don’t think that was ever not an option for us to donate or to second guess what he would have desired.

Vanderbilt and Tn Donor services helped us through the entire process and led us making that happen with love, respect and kindness and there has not been a day of regret on our part. I know through Robert’s decision and love for life he has given hope and a second chance to someone that might not otherwise had that time to spend with those they love. I am grateful for Robert’s life, heart and love for his fellowman, and because of his decision to follow Christ when he was 8 years old that I can see and spend eternity with him when my time here is done. I too will be an organ donor.

Tn Donor services and their staff locally has become an extension of friends and family to us and I am eternally grateful for their leadership, love and Grace that is portrayed when handling families that might not be at a good place when faced with the talk of organ donation. I pray that God will use me to give hope to others through the grief of losing a child and that I might give understanding and love to another family during a difficult time and build a network connection for life and love.

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